Evan in America writes:
Learning by the observation of others works like a charm. I have seen this pattern of American women using men, and the courts facilitating it since the early 1980's. It's all about need versus desire. Do I desire women, Yessiree. Do I need one to fulfill my life, Hell NO. You don't need to stick you're hand in the rattlesnake pit to know that you WILL be bitten. I've seen too many of my friends working their asses off to pay alimony and child support. And I ask each one of them if they would have done anything differently. The answer is almost always "Don't get tangled-up with any of these american female monsters!!" I'm single and happy to have never made that mistake.